Choosing the right school for your child is a deeply personal decision, especially when your child is on the autism spectrum. You want them to feel safe, supported, and understood. But with so many educational paths to consider, the process can feel confusing or even overwhelming.
For many families, the first question is whether a public or private school is the best fit. Public schools offer inclusive settings, federally mandated supports like IEPs, and may even provide out-of-district placement into a specialized private school if the public system determines it can’t meet your child’s needs.
On the other hand, private schools—particularly those dedicated to autism education—can offer smaller classes, specialized staff, and therapeutic services woven into the school day.
So how do you know what’s right for your child?
At Gersh Autism Academy, we’ve worked with hundreds of families navigating this exact choice. Below, we break down the key differences between public and private options, so you can make an informed decision that reflects your child’s strengths, needs, and future.
What Public Schools Offer
Public schools are required by law to provide services for students with disabilities under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). This includes the development of an Individualized Education Program (IEP) tailored to your child’s learning goals, strengths, and challenges.
Benefits:
- Access to IEPs: Structured plans ensure your child receives targeted support.
- Inclusive Classrooms: Your child may benefit from learning alongside neurotypical peers, building social and communication skills in diverse environments.
- Cost-effective: Public education is free and may include access to speech, OT, and counseling services.
Considerations:
- Support services and staff experience can differ significantly from one district to another.
- Larger class sizes and less flexible environments may be overwhelming for children with sensory sensitivities.
- Some public schools may lack the staffing or therapies your child needs consistently.
What Private or Specialized Schools Offer
Private schools, especially those focused on autism and neurodivergent learners, are often designed with a child-centered approach that takes into account emotional regulation, sensory needs, and social development.
Benefits:
- Smaller Class Sizes: More one-on-one time and personalized instruction.
- Specialized Staff: Teachers and therapists with specific autism training can better address unique learning profiles.
- Therapeutic Services On Site: Many private schools integrate speech therapy, occupational therapy, and behavioral support into the daily routine.
- Calmer Learning Environment: Flexible seating, sensory-friendly design, and structured routines help students feel safe and supported.
Considerations:
- All children are entitled by law to a free and appropriate public education (FAPE). When a public school setting isn’t meeting a child’s needs, there are steps families can take to ensure their child receives the support they are legally entitled to — which may include exploring private placements like Gersh Autism Academy.
- Unlike public schools, private schools are not required to accept every student.
Your Role As A Parent
No one knows your child better than you do. Your observations, intuition, and advocacy are essential in finding the right fit. Ask questions, tour campuses, and don’t be afraid to revisit your decision as your child’s needs evolve.
When considering your options, reflect on:
- Does your child thrive in smaller or more structured environments?
- Are therapy services and sensory accommodations readily available?
- How often does the school communicate with parents?
- Does the staff demonstrate experience and empathy when working with neurodiverse students?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Some children flourish in inclusive public schools with the right support. Others find their voice and confidence in a nurturing, specialized private setting. What matters most is finding an environment where your child feels understood, supported, and empowered to grow.
At Gersh Autism Academy, we’re proud to offer a private school experience designed specifically for students on the autism spectrum, from individualized learning plans to integrated therapies and a caring community. We partner with families every step of the way, helping students reach their full potential, academically, socially, and emotionally.
Interested in learning more about what makes Gersh Autism Academy different? Reach out here. We’d love to meet your family and help you explore your options.
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